Autism Tip Sheet for Holiday Activities

Being prepared for special events can help make holiday events much more enjoyable:

• Typically developing siblings of children with autism may often experience the child with autism getting more attention from the parents so many parents find it helpful to plan special time and activities alone with the typically developing child.
• Presenting presents to children with autism can be a frustrating experience if not practiced in advance – Consider practicing opening presents before the holidays by wrapping some small gift items from a dollar store and teaching the children that opening gifts can be fun by making a big deal about the gift saying things like “Oh my, look at this great surprise inside.”
• When going to a holiday event bring things along to occupy your child – Bring little toys you know they enjoy and will keep them focused - if you have an I-pad or I-phone they are used to using that can be a great tool to keep them focused.
• If the child has to dress up for an event it is wise to rehearse many times in advance by practicing having the child wear nice clothes to other activities.
• When going to a holiday party, if possible, take break times to be with your child in another room. Also, bring appropriate reinforcements – highly preferred toys, activities and treats that can be offered to the child for appropriate behavior.
• When possible, it can be beneficial to practice going out to restaurants in advance. You can even check the menu of the restaurant where the event will be taking place and show the child pictures of food items they will want to eat. Again, bring preferred items with you that you know will help keep the child occupied.